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Coaching By Lynn

Newsletter

April 2006

Volume 3, Issue 2

"Whatever the present moment contains, accept it as if you had chosen it. Always work with it, not against it. Make it your friend and ally, not your enemy. This will miraculously transform your whole life."

Eckhart Tolle

 

 

 This newsletter is published to share information that I have found to be valuable and powerful in my journey of personal growth and living a life where anything is possible.  It is an expression of my life’s purpose which is to share my wisdom and inspire others.  My coaching practice focuses on coaching women who want to create a life filled with possibilities and realized dreams.  I have learned that you have to stay focused on what you want in spite of the frustrations, challenges, and moments of self doubt in order to achieve the life you value.  I hope you enjoy and find inspiration in the information that I am sharing with you.    
   
  RE – TREAT YOURSELF
Special points of interest:

There is magic in a retreat.  What magic do you want to create when you go on a retreat?

  

 

 

  

Do you schedule “Me Time”?  If you do, what does your “Me Time” look like?

 

 

 

Are YOU a priority in your life?  If not, why not?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The first part of March I traveled to New Mexico to attend a Retreat Coach Workshop given by Helene Van Manen, MCC (www.retreatcoaches.com).   I went there to learn, be with 25 wise women, and have some quality time with myself and my daughter, who also attended the workshop.  What I came away with was all the above and much more.  It is amazing how when you give yourself space and open yourself up to possibilities, magic happens.  Before the workshop started I set my intention for my time in New Mexico - be open to everything, be present in the moment, and have fun.  The workshop was a learning experience but also a retreat for all to experience in their own way.  For me it was quiet time, time to be part of a group, time to share and listen, time to enjoy the hot mineral pools, time to hike to the mesa,  time to notice how I walk on the earth using all my senses, and a time to laugh, cry, sing, and dance.  All powerful stuff.  The magic of a retreat is giving yourself permission to be in the moment and notice what is happening within you and around you.  Ask yourself some questions.  What do I truly enjoy? Am I willing to try something new?  Am I willing to look inward and face a nagging issue?  In the company of other wise women you notice that: 

§          We share common experiences – we are not alone,

§          We are a resource for each other,

§          We can help one another succeed,

§          We each bring a unique perspective to life, and

§          Our stories enrich the lives of others as well as ourselves.

As women, do we allow ourselves the time to treat ourselves to “Me Time”?  What are the activities that you love to do that would be part of your “Me Time”?  If you had an hour to yourself what would you do?  What I realized in New Mexico was that women prosper when they are in a community of other women.  Their authentic self shines and they are willing to try new things, and look at things in a different way.  Our day to day lives are hectic and over scheduled.  We need to refresh ourselves, re-treat ourselves to the things that give us joy.  This could be a walk in the park, or time to visit the art museum, or a trip to the beach, or lunch with a friend.  Do you have time for yourself in your schedule?  If not, why not?  Are you a priority in your life?

I enjoy attending retreats.  I go on a women’s retreat at least once a year.  It is a time for me to connect with myself and also enjoy the company of other fabulous women.  My time in New Mexico inspired me to lead retreats for women.  I got so much out of the retreat time and process that I want to create that space for other women.  Space to re-evaluate, re-connect, let go, try something new, laugh, and re-energize.  It is up to you what you go home with after a retreat.  My wish is that you leave my retreats with a sense of inner peace and joy, but ultimately it is up to you to carry away the best for you and leave the rest behind.       

  WHAT’S NEW AT COACHING BY LYNN

UPCOMING WORKSHOPS

 

Coming in April, May, and June
 
Mini Virtual Retreat  - Sunday, April 30, 2006 from 2:00 pm - 4:00 pm EST
 
You choose the spot where you want to go on your retreat – your special place in 
your home.  This is a time for you so find a quiet place where there will be no interruptions.  
The phone is only used to call into the Retreat Circle.  Each hour you will call the circle 
and get a Retreat Activity.  We will start promptly at 2:00 pm.  You will call the circle at 
3:00 pm and 4:00 pm.  Bring a journal to write in or a sketch pad to draw or paint, and a 
CD player to listen to your music.  Join me for a wonderful afternoon set aside especially 
for you.  Register now for this Free Mini Virtual Retreat.  The only cost is the price of 
the long distance phone call – deadline to register is Friday, 4/28/2006.  When you 
register, you will get the phone number to call.  Come join me for a Spring afternoon 
with the most important person in your life – YOU.  Invite a friend.
 
A Breath of Spring Retreat, For women who need time to catch their breath. 
Saturday, May 13, 2006  Noon – 4:00 pm
 
Spend an afternoon at the Nassau County Museum of Art ( www.nassaumuseum.com ) 
with me, viewing the art, walking in the formal gardens, and gathering in the circle of 
other wise women who want to pause and catch their breath.  The Retreat Circle forms 
at the museum at noon. Cost of the retreat is $35/person which includes museum 
entrance fee.  Additionally, there will be a $2 parking fee.  To register 
for the retreat call me at 516-565-5361 or send me an email lynn@coachingbylynn.com
Bring a friend. Deadline to register is Monday, May 8, 2006.
  
Mother / Daughter Retreat - Affirming the Relationship
Saturday, June 3, 2006 1:00 - 4:00 pm
 
Mother’s bring your adult daughters – Daughters brings your wise mothers - for a day at 
the Clark Botanical Garden ( www.clarkbotanic.org )with special activities focusing on 
your uniqueness and similarities as women.  My daughter Krista, a jewelry designer, 
will be co-leading the retreat with me.   Bring a journal and your special creativity.   
Limited space available.  Reserve your spot now by calling me at 516-565-5361 or 
send me an email lynn@coachingbylynn.com. Cost of retreat is $75/ Mother-Daughter 
pair.  Deadline to register is Thursday, May 25, 2006.
   
  WHAT IS COACHING?
Lynn B. Engeholm

Life Coach for Women

Certified Dream Coach®

 

Phone:

516-565-5361

Cell:

516-647-6674

Fax:

516-483-0795

Coaching is an ongoing professional relationship designed to support you in producing the results you want in your life, career, and business. Coaching focuses on your present and future.  It's an interactive partnership designed to support you as you transition from where you are to where you want to be.  In a typical session you might share a current challenge or opportunity. I will listen, ask questions, make observations, and offer resources when appropriate. I will support you as you clarify your vision of success, explore possibilities, determine next steps based on your priorities and values, and move into action.  

The coaching is done via telephone.  Our calls are confidential and scheduled at your convenience while you remain in the comfort of your home or office.   

  • Call today for a Complimentary Coaching Session .  You can experience coaching firsthand, see the value, and experience the benefits.  No obligation.  (516-565-5361 or email lynn@coachingbylynn.com
  • Spread the word!  Send this Newsletter to friends and family.  Referrals are the foundation of my business. 
  WITH A COACH,YOU WILL:
Email:

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§TAKE MORE, BETTER, AND SMARTER ACTIONS: BECAUSE YOU SET THE GOALS YOU REALLY WANT

§HAVE A BALANCED LIFE WHICH WORKS WELL:  BECAUSE YOU DESIGNED IT "SELFISHLY"

§MAKE & KEEP MORE MONEY:  YOU ARE WORTH MORE THAN YOU’RE MAKING

§REACH FOR MORE, MUCH MORE:  AND NOT BE CONSUMED IN THE PROCESS

§MAKE BETTER DECISIONS FOR YOURSELF AND FOR YOUR BUSINESS:  BECAUSE YOUR FOCUS IS CLEAR

§HAVE MORE SUSTAINABLE ENERGYNO MORE STARTING AND STOPPING

   

 

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